Skipping to Memorial Day

Lord it was cold (again) today and even though the weather report for New York promises that the temperatures will climb into the 40s and 50s later this week; I just don’t think I can rely on Mother Nature anymore. She has been such a tease – first promising spring with sweet nothings and sunshine, then whirling away in a flurry of snowflakes and stinging winds. Not cool. Not cool at all.

So, here’s my plan. Even though I know the calendar says it’s March 17th (aka St. Patrick’s Day) I’m going to fast forward a little to another excellent holiday: Memorial Day. That’s right, I’m going to mentally skip over crazy, on again off again Spring and go straight into Summer! (In my mind that was pronounced Oprah style as “Suuuummmeeer!” but I wasn’t sure how to spell it.)

How, you might be asking, do I intend to do this? Like so, with my handy make it to “Memorial Day” survival kit. Let’s engage the senses and pretend it’s late May, shall we?

Memorial Day Survival Kit | Design: Laura Messersmith

Memorial Day Survival Kit | Design: Laura Messersmith

1. Smell: The scent of sunscreen always makes me think of long afternoons on the beach. The Body Shop has given us the coconut for the times we don’t need the SPF.

2. Sight: Mary Stewart’s descriptions of a young woman’s adventures in 1960s Greece in My Brother Michael are fantastic – mini vacation!

3. Taste: Dark & Stormys are the official drink of Bermuda. Spicy, summery, and super easy to make. Just mix Goslings dark rum, ginger beer, lime, and ice to your taste. Done and done.

4. Touch: It’s too cold for a long sleeved tee, but Memorial Day wouldn’t be complete without navy sailor stripes, so while it’s still chilly I’m thinking a nautical sweatshirt is in order.

5. Sound: When I need a warm weather soundtrack I turn to Vampire Weekend's eponymous first album. Road trip to the shore with the windows down and the volume up.

 

 

Image Credits: The Body Shop Body Butter | Mary Stewart Book | Dark & Stormy | Gap Sailor Stripe Sweatshirt | Vampire Weekend

Scouting: New York Public Library

I have to give credit to my parents for the endless bedtime stories, birthday Anne of Green Gables box sets, and regular trips to the library for making me a reader since I was a little girl. I'm fairly sure I can still find my first library card nestled in an old Velcro wallet alongside my National Honor Society membership and my Red Cross swimming certificates. 

I join the library system in each city I live in and the tradition continues today with my newly minted membership to New York Public Library. There’s a branch in my neighborhood, but the Stephen A. Schwartzman Building on 5th Avenue (aka ‘the one with the lions’) is truly an iconic New York landmark and I couldn’t pass up a chance to walk up the same steps where giants such as Dr. Peter Venkman have tread.

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I timed my visit so that I could take advantage of the free (!) daily building tours led by a library docent. Here’s a really brief sketch of what I learned: the NYPL was founded in 1895 when two private library collections – The Astor Library and The Lenox Library – and funding from a bequest were combined. The ‘Main Branch’ opened in 1911 on a site provided by New York City and has served as a place of learning for the city and the world ever since.

During my visit I also saw a special library exhibit called The ABC Of It: Why Children’s Books Matter that explores how the content, illustration, and design of books for children have evolved over time. The curator, Leonard Marcus, showed examples of these changes through an amazing variety of materials – everything from a Puritan era alphabet primer, to super hero comics, to a Kara Walker pop-up book. There's also a solid representation of several New York-centric characters like Eloise, James and the Giant Peach, and Lyle Crocodile.

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The whimsy factor is fairly high – a good thing in my book (#sorryimnotsorry #puns) – so prepare to be transported back to childhood. For me the highlights were seeing an original manuscript of The Secret Garden – Mary Lennox and I go way back; P.L. Traver’s parrot handle umbrella, which later became Mary Poppins signature accessory; the original stuffed animal that inspired Winnie the Pooh (Eeyore, Piglet, Kanga, and Tigger all make appearances too); and a video demonstration of Eric Carle’s handmade paper collage illustrations for The Very Hungry Caterpillar. Amazing to all these items from some of my favorite literature collected in one spot.

I’d recommend checking this exhibit out before it closes in September and if you’re looking for more context for the library’s history and architecture the tour gives a good overview. I know I’ll be keeping tabs on future special exhibits and author events, and I’m definitely excited to see what the NYPL comes up with next.

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Roasted Shrimp Salad & Tabbouleh and Feta Pitas

Ina Garten, aka The Barefoot Contessa, and her cookbooks are already a source of guidance for basic recipes but her show serves as my inspiration for more adventurous culinary efforts.  So now that I’ve got the essentials down it’s time to branch out. I’ll choose a recipe from an episode of the Barefoot Contessa to try in my tiny New York kitchen. We’ll see if I can keep up with the Contessa!

Roasted Shrimp Salad; Image: Laura Messersmith

Roasted Shrimp Salad; Image: Laura Messersmith

Episode: “Pack and Go Party”

The Set-up: Ina is planning a casual, elegant picnic in the garden for her friends.

The Menu Roasted Shrimp Salad, Tabbouleh & Feta Stuffed Pita, Ultimate Ginger Cookies

0:55 – First things first: dessert, the most important part of the meal. Ina’s making the Ultimate Ginger Cookies - yum.

1:34 – Even though these are ginger cookies the recipe also calls for cinnamon, cloves, and nutmeg. No weak-tasting cookies for Ina and I wholeheartedly agree – if something is supposed to taste spicy then go for it!

1:48 – Ooh, good trick – in addition to the ground spices, Ina has also minced up crystalized ginger and mixed it into the dough. Normally it’s chocolate or nothing for me, but it’s official, I need to make these cookies.

2:32 – Before the ginger cookies go in the oven a finishing roll in white sugar - a la the snickerdoodle. But, frankly these look a lot better than any snickerdoodle I’ve ever seen.

3:01 – Inspiration has struck! Why not serve the ginger cookies with fresh peaches? That does actually sound pretty good. Count me in, Ina!

3:05 – Ina calls up her friend Barbara Liberman to see if she can stop by the farmstand for peaches. Barbara agrees, but does her one better and offer to get splits of champagne for everyone. Clearly Barbara knows her audience and now I really wish I were going to this picnic.

3:07 – Also, based on the number of horses standing around behind her I’m guessing that Barbara lives on a horse farm. Please don’t tell me if I’m wrong.

7:12 – Now Ina is making Roasted Shrimp Salad with orange zest and a hit of white wine vinegar. I think shrimp is fairly sweet, so something a little tart seems like a good balance.

8:59 – For texture and additional seasoning she’s adding minced red onion, chopped dill, and drained capers. I’m not so sure about this flavor combination, but Ina has never steered me wrong before so I’m willing to trust her on this. Don’t let me down!

9:22 – Over to Pikes Farm Stand to check on Barbara’s progress with the peaches. She’s in luck; they have several bins of ripe fruit which look picture perfect in the afternoon light. Oh, the Hamptons where even the peaches have gorgeous lighting.

10:05 – Shrimp roasting time. Ina says that she got the idea to cook them this way after they started to roast chickens for chicken salad at Barefoot Contessa and found that the meat had better flavor.

10:15 – I am all about things that require almost zero fussing, so roasting things in olive oil, salt, pepper the way Ina taught me has become my go to cooking method. Thank you Ina!

11:43 – Shrimp are out of the oven and have been allowed to cool a little bit. Pro tip #1: slightly warm shrimp will absorb the orange, dill, and caper sauce better.

11:47 – Pro tip #2: add the sauce to the shrimp so that you can adjust the proportions more easily. I hate over-sauced food, so this is a good one to remember!

16:02 – Tabbouleh is in progress and Ina suggests using hot house or English cucumbers since they have a sweeter flavor than traditional cucumbers. I’m not sure I ever noticed the difference, but I do like the smaller seeds and less juicy center, so I’m more than willing to go along with this recommendation.

18:17 – Back to Barbara and her search. This time she’s on the hunt for splits of champagne and manages to find a half dozen bottles at the local wine shop. As Ina says, “Now that’s a party!” to which I say, “Yes, and Amen.”

19:21 – I think ‘bulgur’ drew the short straw - what a terrible name for something that doesn’t look that different from the much cuter sounding ‘couscous’, or exotic and unpronounceable ‘quinoa.’ Poor bulgur.

19:25 – A point in its favor, though, is that it looks really easy to cook. Hot water, lemon juice, salt, pepper and let it sit. That I can totally handle.

20:04 – Ina is a wealth of knowledge! Pro tip #4: Use fresh herbs whenever possible and in this tabbouleh salad it is 100% required. [Stern, but fair.] And, Pro tip #5: making the salad in advance gives the flavors a chance to develop and combine.

24:36 – Ina is filling up the pita pockets with tabbouleh and is putting a giant slice of feta in as well. It looks cool to have such a big piece, but I think I’d prefer some crumbled feta. Maybe I just don’t love feta enough? Where are my priorities?!

25:09 – Picnic packing time and Ina is knocking it out of the park with these cute little orange bags, white paper take out containers, and Barefoot Contessa branded ribbon to tie up the cookie bags. She is not messing around with the presentation.

26:18 – Barbara has arrived! Triumphantly bearing peaches and a bag full of Veuve Clicquot. Am I the only one who noticed that the orange labels match the picnic bags & napkins perfectly? These ladies are gooood.

26:39 – The peaches and champagne have been distributed to the bags and the guests have arrived. This really is a very charming idea - fancy(ish) food & great wine in an informal setting. They’re eating with clear plastic forks!

27:14 – Ina, Jeffrey & Co are popping bottles after which Jeffrey claims this is the best picnic he’s ever been to. I’m inclined to agree with this assessment - they look like they’re having F-U-N.

28:33 – True to form Jeffrey offers to do the (non-existent) dishes and in classic husband logic claims he should get credit for trying to be helpful. Nice try Mr. Garten, Ina may have been born at night, but it wasn’t last night.

29:15 – Fade out on the picnic and the setting sun.

Final Thoughts:

So much good cooking advice in this episode about getting a dish just right – texture, sauce to food proportion, fresh herbs, flavors improve and develop with time.

I’m dying to have a picnic now – thank goodness the warmer weather seems to be on the way!

I would really love to see this crowd at the end of the night when all that V-C is gone… I bet they get rowdy.

 

Tabbouleh and Feta Stuffed Pita; Image: Laura Messersmith

Tabbouleh and Feta Stuffed Pita; Image: Laura Messersmith

Lessons Learned: Yesterday was a beautiful, sunny day here in New York – perfect for a lighter, summery menu so I decided to make both the Roasted Shrimp Salad and the Tabbouleh & Feta Stuffed Pita. Both recipes call for relatively little cooking and consist more of preparing one base ingredient – the shrimp and the bulgur – and then measuring sauce components, chopping some herbs and a few vegetables. Super, super simple.

Now, I must confess I did forget Pro Tip #2, so my shrimp salad was a little over-sauced for my taste and I also neglected to add the lemon juice, etc. to the bulgur until after it had already been soaking for 10-15 minutes. Luckily, these are both easily corrected mistakes in the future and since the recipes are really forgiving they didn’t make a noticeable difference in the outcome.

Both the Shrimp Salad and the Tabbouleh & Feta Stuffed Pita are both definitely small kitchen friendly recipes. Even making both simultaneously I still only used two large bowls, a sheet pan for roasting the shrimp, a cutting board and a few basic kitchen tools (measuring spoons, spatulas, chef’s knife, microplane zester).

The Verdict:

I was really pleasantly surprised by how much I liked the flavors in the shrimp salad. The orange and dill compliment each other nicely and are a lovely balance to the shrimp. Mike particularly liked the contrast of the salty feta with the brightness of the lemon and fresh vegetables in the tabbouleh. He’s a carnivore at heart, so the addition of a protein like grilled lemon chicken would have put this one over the top for him.

A quick note on the colors – the coral, deep pink, red, and bright greens are gorgeous and make these dishes look as appealing as they are tasty. I’d definitely recommend them both for a summer lunch when you want to eat something light, pretty, and satisfying.

Internet Rabbit Trails

Does this ever happen to you? It starts with a little harmless scrolling through Instagram, which leads to a new blog, which leads to a board on Pinterest…. Two hours later I’m resurfacing from the depths of the Internet with no recollection of where the time went. One click leads to another as I follow the rabbit trails of linked pages and sometimes leads to unexpected gold.

Image & Design: Laura Messersmith

Image & Design: Laura Messersmith

On one such day I excavated this interview with Rashida Jones written by Garance Doré. The lovely, hilarious, and very smart Rashida (may I call you Rashida?) reflects on her career and her responses are so grounded and thoughtful that I had to share.

My favorite is this one where she shares the best advice her parents, Quincy Jones and Peggy Lipton, gave her [emphasis mine]:

“I would say it’s not particularly career advice but life advice. My mom was all about following your heart and instinct. As I have gotten older, I have connected more with my instinct, which is good. And my dad always said to make decisions based on love, not fear. It’s so good. Why am I making this decision? Is it because I’m afraid I’m not going to get a job again? Well that’s fear. Or I love this thing so much I don’t care what anyone else thinks about it. That’s still a huge thing that guides me in my life.”

As I’ve been trying to figure out where life is leading me and wrestling with questions of career, family, future - the wisdom of this advice struck me as being really, really profound. It made me stop and ask myself: are the things I’m worried about driving me more than pursuit of the things I love?

I realize that this is a privileged position to be in, but I’m certain that there are other people in seasons of change grappling with the same kinds of questions. What would I like to accomplish in this life? What are my gifts and talents? And, how am I meant to be using them?

I don’t have the answers yet and maybe I never will (I hope that’s not the case!), but I have to give it up to the whims of the Internet for bringing the wisdom of Quincy Jones to my screen at an opportune moment. I hope that taking a moment to consider my motivations will give some clarity to my thought process and help me make choices that lead to things I love. I hope it will help you too!